- Let kids enjoy the process of gardening without worrying so much about the end result. I know this can be rough because you put a lot of work into it. We've had quite a few squished strawberries because 2 yr old feet have strayed off the garden path but my little one has loved picking and eating strawberries in her own way and I've loved watching. It may be that the only thing you grow is a gardener :).
- Go through seed catalog, pick seeds based on plants that look appealing to your kids. Maybe try a new, exotic plant each year (we tried peanuts a few years back and it was really fun and surprising to see how peanuts grow).
- My daughter loves planting seeds. She doesn't really think much about them after they're in the ground (and sometimes I go back and pick them up later) but she loves poking holes in the soil, dropping in the seeds and burying them.
- Let your kids help you problem solve, is there a bug eating your crops? Send your child out to investigate and see what he/she can find out. Here are a few questions to get them started: What kind of holes does it make in the leaves? Does it leave a trail of any sort? Do you notice any webs nearby? Can you think of a way to try to catch the culprit? Is the damage enough that we need to worry about it? Let your kids feel invested in the problem solving process (be it disease, malnutrition or bugs) and the solution.
- Try relinquishing a section of the garden where your kids can plant/tend/harvest however they'd like. If they're old enough, encourage them to have a garden journal to jot down observations or draw pictures of their garden. They can also measure plants, tracking their growth and counting their yield through the season,
- One of my friends sends her kids out to pick bugs off the plants.
- Research and grow some edible flowers
- Let your child select some colorful flowers to plant in with your vegetables. They'll help attract bees.
- Plant a Sweet 100 Cherry Tomato plant and let your kids pick and eat to their hearts content.
- Target has some decent children's gardening tools in the dollar spot. It's always easier to work with tools that are the right size.
- Make a teepee out of a pole bean or a vining plant. Use bamboo stakes to form the teepee and then plant around the outside and help the vining plant to trellis up. Use this as a novel focal point in your garden or a fun hideout.
- If you're using containers, let your kids paint/decorate the pots.
- Make vegetable markers. There are SO many ideas out there for creative plant markers or let your kids come up with something themselves.
- Plant seeds in a pattern, a shape, your child's initial, etc.
- Get a seedling tray and a seed packet and let your little one see how many seedlings he/she can get to grow. I've heard that people actually get paid based on their germination rate (the percentage of seedlings that sprout from the seeds planted).
- I find that my daughter can manage better if we can keep our garden maintenance fairly short in duration. Our max is about 10 minutes. Sometimes that means we're out there 2 or 3 times a day but it's enjoyable for both of us. The weeds will still be there for me to pick tomorrow :).
- We're gonna get dirty. And it's good.
- Make leaf prints, seed collages, dry flowers, garden portraits, bug profiles.
- Facilitate, try not to micromanage too much. This is hard for me but I'm working on it.
- And if you really want to go the extra miles, after an activity, do something to reinforce what everyone has learned. Talk about what went on, who did what, who saw what.
What kinds of things have you done with your kids?